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Monday, October 8, 2007
Weekend
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Saturday, October 6, 2007
Married
We had a great time and are so happy to move forward as husband and wife!
Thursday, October 4, 2007
DONE
Tuesday morning was my final Radiation appointment, which puts me at 100% complete with my treatment process! Kristina and I went out to dinner that night and reflected on the physical and emotional roller coaster we’ve been on since she found the lump. We both agreed the worst part of the process was the time leading up to the diagnosis when we didn’t know what was going on and feared for the worst. I still feel tremendously lucky to have tolerated everything so well and am blessed to be surrounded by such a wonderful group of family, friends, colleagues and acquaintances – it really made the whole process a lot easier to have that bubble of support around us.
I will spend some more time in the near future wrapping everything up, but I am extremely happy and relieved to be complete and sincerely appreciative for all the kind words of encouragement each of you have offered to me and my family over the last 6 months.
All the best,
Friday, September 28, 2007
"Hello Clarice..."

Monday, September 24, 2007
Swallow This

Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Another Short One
The Sox lost 2 of 3 from the Yanks and appear to be heading towards a monumental collapse to end the season…at a minimum their chances to succeed in the playoffs look bleak. Meanwhile BC and the Pats are whipping up a storm, so it’s on to football right now.
Radiation marches on, every day…I am through 4 treatments of 15 and still not noticing any side effects. I remain busy and the once daily trip to
Other than that, things are going well, keeping busy, feeling good and living life.
Hope you all are well - Gary
Friday, September 14, 2007
Update
Been pretty busy lately but things are going really well; started radiation Wednesday afternoon and it’s a piece of cake – you truly cannot tell you are having anything done. Having my head locked down to the table is not all that pleasant, but a small price to pay.
Best perk of radiation; free massages in the waiting room – part of the hospitals “holistic” approach to healthcare, and now part of my daily routine for the next few weeks.
Feel great, can’t stress that enough, and I’ve been keeping really busy…conference in Boston Monday and Tuesday, hit the Sox Monday night and watched them lose to the D-Rays, had a big event last night here on the Cape that went tremendously well, going up to Suffolk Downs tomorrow night from my grandfather’s 80th b-day, and hitting up the Red Sox Sunday night, hopefully to watch them complete a devastating sweep of the Yankees.
Chemo barely slowed me down, I am not going to let radiation slow me down and I am looking forward to a great September here on
All the best, enjoy your weekends - Gary
Thursday, September 6, 2007
Radiation

I will begin radiation next Wednesday, 9/12, and am scheduled for 15 visits, which has me done on October 2nd, 2007. In the process of being there they gave me some permanent markings, tattoos, essentially...they're small dots on my chest area. Now that I'm bald and have some tats I figure it's time to buck-up and get a Harley to go along with the look.
All else is well, looking forward to starting/finishing radiation and happy to be so close to the end. All the best and enjoy your weekends - Gary
Friday, August 31, 2007
Dana Farber
Went up to Dana-Farber this morning for a second opinion on the radiation treatment and it was a quick and simple trip. Initially I met with a resident and an intern and went over the entirety of my identification of the disease, diagnosis, treatment, etc. It’s a little bazaar to sit in a room with people while one is actually learning about medicine, treatment, etc. We actually witnessed this interaction, which was a little embarrassing;
Resident; “Did you have any numbness in your hands during chemo?”
Me; “No.”
Resident; “It’s a strange phenomenon, we see particularly in younger men, some hand neuropathy from the chemo,” (to intern) “what drug would cause that?”
Intern; …..silence….”The….”
I don’t remember what she answered, but she did answer and she was wrong, but he was good about it and used it as a productive teaching moment. I understand it is a necessary and important part of modern medicine to work in this fashion; it’s just a little weird when you’re the patient and they’re sort of quizzing each other over you.
Dr. Ng finally came in and after reviewing everything from Canaday and the PET reports basically said everything he suggested is how they would handle it there and she was very comfortable with the recommended course of treatment. She was very pleasant and from what we understand she has been instrumental in reviewing several clinical trials currently being conducted in
At this point I have an appointment on Wednesday of next week to further plan out the treatment and make some surgical markings that will be used during the delivery of radiation, and I believe September 17th will be the eventual start date, though that is not official. Side effects from radiation remain minimal but could include problems swallowing, some loss of taste, thickening of saliva, fatigue, and some other surface skin issues in the treatment area. I’m anxious to get started and work through it.
Labor Day weekend is looking good, BC football tomorrow afternoon at 3:30 (ABC) and a lot of relaxing. Enjoy your weekends and thanks for the visit -
Thursday, August 30, 2007
Livestrong Presidential Cancer Forum

Tuesday, August 28, 2007
Update on Appointments/GO SOX!

Tuesday, August 21, 2007
Martha's Vineyard/PET Scan

Thursday, August 16, 2007
The Game

It was a great game and a really special night for me; to see a guy pitching who had been through much of the same process as me was really nice, and the welcome he got from the Fenway Faithful was inspiring. As a fan you loved the game, the comeback, everything, but as a cancer patient there was something a little more special, a little more meaningful. I walked out proud to be a Red Sox fan and proud to be facing and beating cancer and ready to move on with my life.
I'm sure there were patients and families across the country watching that performance who may not be so lucky, who may have lost loved ones to the disease, or who are not physically able to do the things that I am...that's why after all I have been through I continue to count myself as tremendously lucky; lucky Kristina saw a lump on my neck, lucky to be young and healthy, lucky to have good medical care, lucky to have tolerated treatment so well, lucky to have such wonderful friends and family, lucky to be ready to move on. I never thought "why me?", but when you go to a place like Dana Farber and see all the people there who are really struggling you think, "why not me?" No, I never expected to have cancer at 28 years old, but I think it has made me a better person, has forced me to rethink things, and has dramatically altered my perspective on life, health, and mortality.
So, as I stare down the barrel of radiation and look forward to the rest of my life I count my blessings and stand ready to do what I can in the future to help others who may not be as lucky as I am.
Monday, August 13, 2007
Holding Pattern
As for cancer related news there isn't any, and won't be any for a while; I have a PET Scan scheduled for the 22nd and then follow-ups with my oncologist and radiation oncologist on the 27th. At that point I should have some clarity on exactly how effective the treatment was, where I will go from here and how radiation will be. Personally I've been a little tired since the last treatment, nothing too bad, but just a little run down, fatigued, etc. I'm enjoying the bald thing for now and will probably keep it that way for at least a few months...Kristina shaved it with a razor last night and it's looking a lot cleaner now, I also managed to get some additional sun on it over the last few days, so it's not quite so stark white anymore.
Tomorrow night is Jon Lester's first start back at Fenway since his diagnosis and I am going to head up to witness it. I remember when he was diagnosed (remember, we had a different diagnosis, but Lymphoma nonetheless) thinking how crazy it was that such a young guy, a professional athlete no less, had been diagnosed with cancer - it was difficult to comprehend. Then when my own diagnosis came many people recognized it, or were somewhat familiar with it because of the Lester connection. I watched some of his first game back and it was really special to see him out there, less than a year after the initial diagnosis, pitching a major league game. When I heard the other day he was scheduled for the start at Fenway I felt really strong about going and seeing this amazing recovery story first hand. So, I should be there tomorrow night to witness his return to Fenway and I am fully confident that the ovation he will receive will be incredible - Red Sox fans have a lot of respect for the game and take tremendous pride in seeing one of their own conquer something that is so frightening, something they may have dealt with in one form or another...I would imagine the crowd will be cheering for Lester, and for anyone they have ever known who has been touched by this terrible disease.
So, I am hoping for a strong performance from Lester and the Sox, and looking forward to an exciting month of no treatments, and some fun stuff too...heading out to MV in a few weeks for a mini-vacation, which is much needed at this point. Thanks again for coming by and I'll try to update any relevant, and irrelevant, information over the coming weeks...Gary
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
O....V....A.....OVA!!
Looking forward to a free month and am so happy to be done with chemo...time to celebrate, with a nap.
Monday, August 6, 2007
What a Weekend
Tuesday, July 31, 2007
Kick in the Pants

Friday, July 27, 2007
And then there was one...

Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Jon Lester

Monday, July 23, 2007
No News
Life has been plugging along pretty much as normal lately, plenty of work and fun and all the usual trappings of a
I should explain; at the beginning there was an aspect of excitement with the diagnosis…an excitement to rise to the challenge, an excitement to face something like cancer down and to beat it, an excitement to learn more about my diagnosis, to work at being a perfect patient. Most of all I found it to be just another challenge in my life and I approached much as you would a challenge in your professional life, or an athletic endeavor; I was prepared mentally to beat it, I knew I would beat it, never doubted that much. I didn’t know how severe or mild the treatment process would be but was convinced that I was 28 years old and no matter how bad it got I knew it would be worth it…turns out it hasn’t really been all that bad and if you take the CT Scans at face value I appear to have beaten this thing, for now.
So I’ve become bored with it at this point, sick of talking about it and dealing with it and looking forward to just getting on with the business of normal life. I feel extremely fortunate to have handled things so well, to me that’s just the luck of the draw and a byproduct of youth. I also feel blessed to have such a wonderful support system around me, people who love me and care about me who have done a tremendous job of helping me through some of the more difficult periods, without that system this whole experience would have been much more trying, much more emotionally challenging.
To me, it’s already over, though I have two treatments left – I feel like I have beaten it, but I know that for the next 10 years it’s still sort of looming there in the background, waiting to pop-up and test me again. For now, I want to just get through the last two treatments, take my month off, do my radiation and then just sort of put it to bed – not think about it for a little while, escape the cycle of doctors, hospitals, tests and scans…it’s a routine that gets old pretty fast. I feel like I rose and met the challenge and with the help of numerous medical professionals, family and friends, I was able to beat it…for that I thank each person who reads this, you have all helped me in unique and special ways to face this challenge, accept it, and conquer it.
As for normal life, things have been pretty good…we had a surprise 60th for Kristina’s mother on Saturday, was a great time and we pulled off the surprise. We won in softball yesterday by intimidating the other team so much prior to the game, that they only had 3 players show up (a forfeit, but we take them however we can get them), the playoffs start next week, I’m expecting greatness.
Last week was in NYC for some meetings and just happened to be at Grand Central about 10 minutes prior to that pipe explosion; made for a wonderful traffic situation that night and all day the next day – pretty much everything I did was in mid-town, so it was a nightmare, but was certainly glad to have cleared that direct area shortly before the incident.
Everything else is pretty good…treatment #7 on Thursday, after our 30th Anniversary Party on Wednesday evening. Tomorrow afternoon heading to the Barnstable County Fair to eat everything I can – though I am sick of dealing with cancer, the upside is justifying every kind of garbage food you can imagine, on a regular basis, and tomorrow night is the
Look out for Jon Lester to start tonight in
All the best,
Monday, July 16, 2007
Brief Update
Weekend was good – racked up another loss for Softball; we’re really just sandbagging until the playoffs when we’ll be ready to launch a full frontal assault on every team that’s laughed at us so far. The Hospice Auction was a great time and seemed to be a wild success for them…perfect evening and a lot of familiar faces. Other than that we did a lot of lounging for the weekend, which was nice as I was a little more tired than usual – nothing alarming, just a little run down.
Very busy week this week; with a trip to NYC for some meetings in the middle of the week and plenty of normal work around that. Next week will be treatment #7, though I have pushed back the appointment until Thursday to make room to attend the Cape Medical Supply 30th Anniversary party, which promises to be a very exciting evening. Other than that I’m just plodding along with my head down, feeling like a fairly normal human being; still really looking forward to putting this whole ordeal behind me and moving on with life as a survivor.
All the best to you and yours, talk soon, Gary
Thursday, July 12, 2007
75% Complete
My next treatment will be delayed one day to Thursday 7/26 to accomodate the 30th anniversary celebration for Cape Medical Supply - which will be a wonderful opportunity to celebrate how far the business has come and spend time with our employees, partners, referral sources and key vendors.
Tomorrow night is the Hospice of Cape Cod "Evening by the Sea Auction and Gala" at the Wianno Club. It's always an incredible evening and beautiful setting. We do a lot of business with hospice agencies, this one in particular, and are huge supporters of the work they do with patients, families, and the community at large. End of life care is an oft overlooked part of the healthcare continuum, however I can tell you the work these agencies do is critical to a highly functional healthcare delivery system and a wonderful way for patients families to say goodbye.
Saturday we have some activities around the neighborhood and Sunday we look to try and extend our one game winning streak in Softball...should be a great weekend. I hope you enjoy the end of your week and weekend and thanks for checking in - Gary
Tuesday, July 10, 2007
#6 is Upon Us

Friday, July 6, 2007
4th of July
Should be a relaxing weekend, with no plans other than plenty of time to relax, sleep, and maybe get out for a bike ride or some tennis.
I'll post next week after my Oncology appointment...enjoy your weekends and all the best, Gary
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Update and Happy 4th of July!

Thursday, June 28, 2007
Rock 'n Roll
My dad’s back home and doing well after his latest trip to Boston, where they detected no major problems and are contemplating his next round of treatments, etc. He is still very tired and not 100% but my folks are relieved that there are no major complications with that previous procedure and they can now focus on what’s next in the treatment pipeline – looks like possibly Erbitux again or another round of Chemo, no rest for the weary!
I have now completed 5 of 8 treatments, am feeling physically strong and ready to push hard to the finish line and put this chapter of my life behind me. I felt great all day today; spent the day over at our new location in
At the outset we believed that the Chemo had a cumulative effect, meaning it was presumed I would slowly degrade as the treatments wore on, however now that I am over halfway done it appears to me that my body is actually getting used to the treatment and the drugs and I am actually feeling better with each successive treatment…knock on wood with that statement but I really can’t believe how good I have felt.
So tomorrow it’s another full day of work and then hopefully a cookout at a friend’s house tomorrow night, followed by golf on Saturday with the boys from BC (Bugbee, Neil, Dave) and then we meet up with the ladies for an afternoon on the
Hope all is well with all of you, talk soon…
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
CT Results
Great news, we're out to dinner celebrating!
Cheers, Gary
Update
My dad had to go back to
We’re very busy here at work preparing to open our new store in
So, per usual, things are a little less than ideal, but overall we’re very pleased with how things are going and hopeful that things will improve with my dad and we can get him home by the middle of the week. I remain upbeat about my condition and am already looking forward to the things I may be able to do following my treatments; ways I could give back to the community and help support other individuals who will share a common diagnosis and struggle with me. This disease, and my dad’s, have opened my eyes to the thousands of people who struggle every day to get through life, and I have to believe that there are things I can do in the future to help, ways to give back, and a mechanism for me to thank the numerous caregivers who have done so much to help and comfort me throughout my diagnosis and treatment process. What can I do? I don’t really know yet, but I’m working on it and I look forward to making something positive out of this challenge and am confident I can.
I’ll post something quick this evening about the results of the scan and I truly appreciate all of your heartfelt support and thoughts…I continue to be wowed at how many people come here, read this stuff about my life, and actually enjoy it – thank you all!
Monday, June 25, 2007
Wedding and Weekend
What a weekend…we had a blast in
Saturday night we went to another wedding here on the
Blood work is today, tomorrow at 4:20p I should get the CT Scan results and I am excited for the news there, which I expect to be overwhelmingly positive; then it’s treatment #5 on Wednesday.
I’ll put more up on the weekend and the wedding when I have time, and I will be sure to put a post up tomorrow afternoon as soon as I get the news from Dr. Aviles on the CT results.
Hope everyone enjoyed their weekends,
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
Big 2-9
So, I survived the night and am now officially 29, which means I have one more year until I am officially “old.” Quick joke to start the day – no offense, but I’m quite sure I’ll get some juicy feedback for that line.
Playing in the New England Medical Equipment Dealers (NEMED) Golf Tournament today and am excited to catch up with some industry folks from around
Tonight it’s dinner with the family and then we’re off to
I thank everyone for their wonderful words of support for our entire family, particularly for my dad, who is home and doing very well and is VERY excited for the wedding and all the festivities. I look forward to some good news next week and hope everyone has a wonderful weekend…
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
Cat Scan
Monday, June 18, 2007
Weekend Update

Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Halfway Done
Treatment went well today and marks my halfway point in the treatment process – which is a big mental hurdle to cross. I have begun to really dread going and the subsequent feelings of extreme fatigue and other associated symptoms. The days of looking at treatment as a quiet few hours to myself seem like a distant memory at this point as the reality of the process has sunk in a little further…but I remain positive about everything and hungry to continue beating this disease and being able to live some semblance of a normal life in the process.
I came home from treatment and managed to sleep for the remainder of the day, that felt great and I got up and went for a walk with Kristina – always nice to get a little fresh air.
Looking forward to this weekend and to getting in a few rounds of golf, one with my dad on Father’s Day, and getting my youngest brother home on Sunday…he’s coming in with his girlfriend for the wedding a few days early, so it will be great to get together with everyone for more than just a few hours at the wedding. I’ll only know tomorrow how I will feel for the next few days and am hopeful that I can get in and get some much needed work done before the weekend comes and then next week will be short as we head down to
So, halfway done…it’s a big deal for me and I cannot wait to get 100% complete with the chemo process, get some time off and then prepare for the radiation, which should be much easier than chemo.
Cheers,
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
# 4...Tomorrow
I moved back my treatment time for tomorrow to attend a meeting, in an advisory capacity, with the VNA of Cape Cod and do a tour of the new wing of Cape Cod Hospital. This new tower at the hospital marked a continuing commitment by Cape Codders and Cape Cod Healthcare in continuing to advance the level of healthcare services and facilities available here on Cape Cod. I look forward to seeing the new tower and taking in what I hear are amazing views of Hyannis Harbor.
As someone who is currently benefiting from the level and scope of services available right here on the Cape, I am tremendously thankful for the innovative environment present here and further believe this innovation will need to continue for the next generation of Cape Codders to receive and benefit from healthcare services closer to home. There is also a confidence issue for many to overcome; there are still those who believe the services available here are sub-standard and that one is much better off turning to the academic hospitals of Boston to receive their care. While Boston is undoubtedly a premiere healthcare center, I feel that many people underestimate the level of service and expertise here. I have first hand experience with my own and my father's treatment, as well as with my fiance's mother's open heart surgery at Cape Cod Hospital last year...the care here is of a very high quality and continues to get better and I feel very fortunate to be able to go through my treatments so close to home, family and work.
So, tomorrow will get me to 50% complete and I am very happy to be where I am in this process and to be handling things so well to this point. Thanks again for coming by, the support has been tremendous and I am so happy to have so many wonderful people in all different areas of my life.
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Why don't I write about Cancer anymore?
The Falmouth Chamber event was a great time on Thursday night as we headed over to Vineyard Haven, Oaks Bluff and then back to Falmouth. Same some familiar faces and met a number of new people as well...Falmouth is a large town and often gets a rap that it's closed off from the rest of the Cape. Many people don't like to go there and others don't like to leave (driving issues primarily), so it becomes a very distinct Cape community where folks all know each other very well and do quite a bit of business in their own town. We're looking forward to becoming a part of the fabric of the town and working hard to be a trusted provider of services to the residents there.
It has occurred to me lately that I am writing less and less about Lymphoma, and more and more about business and life; that has sort of been the trajectory of my cancer to this point. At the beginning it was a very consuming diagnosis; I spent all of my free time researching it and trying to learn more about it and how it may affect me. As time and treatments went on it became more just a normal part of my life, another few appointments to fill my weeks.
I have grown very comfortable and at ease with living with my disease, and remain focused on the rest of my life and my work. I have the good fortune of having fairly benign side-effects from my treatment, which affords me the luxury of not focusing on treatments and cancer on a daily basis; many more are far less fortunate and are forced to cope, daily, with the effects, ailments, and heartache of their cancer and their treatment. That day may come for me, as treatments progress and my body wears down from the stress, but for now I remain very positive and feel very much like a normal 28 year old guy who's busy with work, life, and having fun.
Tomorrow morning I have some meetings and business to attend to in the office, but I will leave around 11a to participate in the RHCI Golf Classic at the Hyannisport Golf Club; I am a part of the golf committee that helps plan and organize the event, so tomorrow isn't just a great day for a great cause, it's also the culmination of many months of planning, with a very talented committee and staff, for the event, which is always a great success and a lot of fun. I'll be playing with three other Cape Medical staff members...we're all looking forward to a great day on the links and hopeful RHCI will raise a lot of money for their adaptive sports programs and for the great work they do rehabilitating and working with so many members of our community.
So, I hope you all had wonderful weekends...Wednesday will mark the halfway point for my treatment, and I cannot wait to post that 50% completed entry after treatment. Thanks again for coming by and I'll see you all soon...Gary
Thursday, June 7, 2007
This Week...Doing Better than the Sox

Wednesday, June 6, 2007
All's Well
Things continue to go well, little more tired than usual but not that big of a deal.
Nothing new to report…looking forward to the weekend (mom’s birthday) and my brother’s wedding is coming right up as well, which will be a great time.
Other than that, keeping busy with work, etc. and living life like normal.
Cheers,
Monday, June 4, 2007
Weekend
Had a great weekend…slept a little more than usual and was tired (I have begun to notice my side effects linger longer, the accumulation effect) but we had a great time. Friday night we cooked out at home, Saturday we were up with the birds and did all kinds of stuff; ended the day in Chatham where we poked around town a little bit and then had dinner – great night for it.
Yesterday we did more relaxing and then had softball at 6p in
Busy day today and busy week this week…I’ll get some stuff up when I get a chance and hope everyone is well. My hair is coming out again, but you really wouldn’t notice any hair loss yet; Kristina and I notice it all over the house (it’s almost like we have a second cat now) but you can’t tell by looking at my head – and I may never lose enough for it to be noticeable.
So all’s well, the weekend was great, and I am feeling better again…full slate of work and events this week – get while the getting’s good – and then it’s treatment #4 (50% done) next Wednesday!
Enjoy your days and thanks for coming by, Gary
Friday, June 1, 2007
Update and Cape Medical News

Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Another One Bites the Dust
